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September 8, 2017

Teaching Life Skills In The Early Years

When I was a little girl, I can remember not having much involvement in the kitchen. I have so many memories of sitting on a couch, propped in front of a tv, occasionally glancing towards the kitchen. That is where my mom liked to be-alone.

I don’t recall there ever being an incident but she never invited us or encouraged us to join. Maybe she didn’t think we belonged there, I don’t know. When I visited my grandma (her mother) she usually shoed me out. I may have been six or seven. I don’t even have memories of being taught on how to clean. Then one day I was just expected to do it.

My own children like to “help” me clean and cook. At the very beginning of their involvement I sort of felt like it was a nuisance. I could get it done faster and get on with our day quicker, if I just did it. In part, I think this was due to my own upbringing.

I know this wonderful family, the mother is a seasoned homeschool mom of six. Her daughter(s) have been babysitting for us for nearly two years. The independence, attention to detail, and maturity in these teens is amazing. When my husband and I go out for date night, we return and our house is spic and span. Our children are fed and in bed, if it’s bedtime. The kicker? My kids helped clean.

This started about a year ago but listening to that fifteen year old girl talk about how my kids “helped” her, gave me a different perspective. That my children helping me shouldn’t be viewed as a nuisance but that they really are trying to help me. More importantly, with the right kind of encouragement, I am setting the stage for some very important life skills.

I don’t blame my mother, I love her. It’s every generations job to improve from the last, so her mother may have kicked her out of the kitchen but mine just never encouraged it or taught it-until the end. Well it’s my generation and my turn to improve.

It is easy to think that a very young child is not old enough to be helping. However, if they are trying then that’s a sign that they are ready. It just takes proper guidance and direction. I’ve changed my perspective and embraced the help that they offer.

When they see me get the broom out, one grabs the dust pan and the other grabs the small broom, I encourage it. “You are sweeping well, thank you.” When I start to unload the dish washer, they jump in to help, and I encourage it. “Look how you got those glass cups out of there, so gentle, thank you.” When they want to help wash the floor I encourage. “Look how well you are washing the floor.

By changing this one negative thought from “nuisance” to “they really are trying to help,” my children have begun to blossom. By adding encouraging statements, I’ve had amazing results. We work together as a  team, cooking and cleaning, establishing a solid foundation for future life skills.

One important thing I’ve learned so far in our homeschool journey, is that learning is so much more than academics. Life is learning and it is our job as parents to teach our kids all of these life skills. I may not have been taught in my early years, but I can change this for my own children. To ensure they are prepared for independence and are able to be successful adults. When did you start teaching your children to cook and clean?

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About Sarah

Just the name of my blog gives me away. Hi, There! I am Sarah Bliss, author of Holistic Homeschooler. I am happily married to the man of my dreams and together we raise two adorable children

We obviously homeschool and believe home education is more than academics.

I hold a personal philosophy that homeschooling is holistic and encompasses the whole child-body, mind, heart, spirit.

When I refer to the spirit, I mean the holy spirit. That ones own spirit needs daily nourishment from the word of God.

I  homeschool mainly using a Charlotte Mason Philosophy of Education. I absolutely love nature which is why the nature study aspect of Charlotte’s philosophy really speaks to me. We spend hours outside, on nature walks or the occasional hike.

Additionally, I have a burning desire to take our homeschool Journey on the road and share our travel adventures with anyone who will read or listen. Yet, this is a plan in progress so for now we are casually road-schooling.

Finally-I am a Registered Nurse, with the heart to spread educational information on health, wellness, and physical fitness. 

I hope to be a source of encouragement and inspiration as we travel along this homeschool journey together.

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